The Paradigm Shift From kodependensi

Before we can create a paradigm shift, we need to understand what we "shift" from. Kodependensi is a nuisance, elusive and destructive secrets that erode and destroy our emotional and spiritual life on the planet. This is a time traveler, conscious psychological has destroyed millions of lives from generation to generation. Kodependensi began in childhood when a child sticking with their core identity conscious left and honesty takes root, dishonest, the role of maladaptif feel welcome, accepted and loved. Kodependensi is an invisible monster that moves through our family system, destroying any potential for self-actualization, unconditional love and spiritual connection. We, the human race, creating a kodependensi and it is our responsibility to counter-kodependensi this condition are not aware, the attachment is psychological and ending the destructive power.

Kodependensi creates two conscious life roles as a child/teenager codependent, "controller" and "dependent". Each role has been conditioned to respecting the definition of love is false. The "controller" has been conditioned to leave him to fix, save and store depending on the chronic. The "hanging" have been conditioned to leave themselves and dishonest "people please" and trying to be saved and stored by the "controller". The second role of magnetic pull, creates codependent pattern strong doors rolling I've named "loop addict". In the "circle" addicts, the respective roles of codependent unconscious search for them "love ties" and "fix" high/euphoria feel welcome and accepted but always end up abandoned, gutted, annoyed and was destroyed.

As we condition ourselves from cons-kodependensi, we have to start counter-our children's condition. A child/teenager who has been conditioned to life kodependensi in the world, the secret to be honest. The "dependent child" will be performing and "please" and seen as a child/teenager people like and can get along with. The "controller" dishonest will be performing and being a "child could do", a straight a student, football quarterback or overachievers. These two personality traits can be very positive if the child is unconscious and dishonest "perform" them to be accepted and loved. Parents and the community will naturally validating the role and child/teen will continue to etch their false role kodependensi more in their lives.

Over time, two codependent learn to leave the role, shame and condemned the core identity of their own, creating a detachment and broke away from the roots of their honesty, internal message being "I don't count, I was stupid, I should fix it, I'm flawed and wrong". The controllers and their core identity depends condemned, the more they depend on their kodependensi role (s). This tragedy for many years, child/adolescent conditioning will believe their role is kodependensi ruin themselves authentically. It is our responsibility to reveal our subconscious, damaging, kodependensi patterns and charge that our children are having their lives and we navigate from the root depth and honesty of authentic self.

Respect for truth and honesty of our personal will be quite contrary to the role (s) from our kodependensi. Depends have been conditioned to fear to be a problem or not, and on the confrontation. The Controller was aware of the fear of abandonment if they aren't in complete control and "fix" the life depends and other meaningful relationship. Both roles can cons kodependensi conditioned from time to time, but it will take courage and patience.

When we refused to do kodependensi to be honest our role (s), their families, partners, friends and working relationship might be disrespectful, angry, and probably leave us. All of them have to take a risk. The aim is to protect and respect the deep truth and honesty roots in costs.This is the opposite of what all the kodependensi demands of us. People leave us be manipulation because they cannot engage, control and satisfy the hypnotic dances, destructive "controller/depends". To be honest, loving family members, partners and friends to stand strong and will not leave when the boundaries were set up healthy. If our intimate relationship, family and friends are not aware of the fake US kodependensi prosecute performances, the relationship should be evaluated and adjusted.

When awareness and our actions become more strongly conscious of the role of gravity we kodependensi style (s), a paradigm shift from the kodependensi with our core identity and true self will start counting myself and created the freedom that actualize a new born, pengal